The Invitation

posted March 12th, 2010 by Janet Graham - One Comment

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living.


I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.


It doesn’t interest me how old you are.


I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.


It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon.


I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of      further pain!


I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.


I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own. If you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.


It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true.


I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear       the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithful and therefore trustworthy.


I want to know if you can see beauty even when it’s not pretty, every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence.


I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”


It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.


I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.


It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here.


I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink     back.


It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.


I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.


I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.


Attributed to: Oriah Mountain Dreamer             


I was moved by these words and wanted to share them with you.

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One Response to “The Invitation”

Comment from Sandy Graham
Time March 19, 2010 at 7:31 am

What a great week to receive these words. My own private hell is no doubt a kernel of sand from all the beaches of the world, when I put it in perspective relative just to the suffering of others. I’ve never been one to stay down and this recent struggle won’t hold me down as I have the support of my friends and my faith.


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